No matter how good a kindergarten teacher is, he can't teach children who always ask for leave!

Many parents have applied for training classes, interest classes and specialty classes for their children, but the learning effect is very different. What role should parents play in it?

Why are good students getting better and better? Because they have good learning habits, basically do not miss classes, can fully learn the content taught in each class, clearly see their progress, naturally more and more confident, and over time learning has become a habit of his. While some children are very interested and active at the beginning, but gradually lose interest, and once there is no internal drive, they will fall into the vicious circle of state decline.

Why lose interest? The reason is often late and leave early. There are always many reasons for asking for leave: grandma's birthday this weekend, going home to see grandpa, going out for travel, catching a cold, fever, stomachache, knocking... These reasons sound so legitimate that the teacher can't refuse them. However, the establishment of learning habits requires long-term persistence. If parents really want their children to succeed in their studies, they should get rid of all distractions and "give way" to classes in terms of schedule.

Learning any subject requires continuity, systematic learning and training. Children's progress in learning is inseparable from their usual habits. Habits are things we do without thinking. They are people's daily behavior patterns, or behavior patterns formed through constant repetition. 40% of people's behavior is out of habit. Everyone knows the importance of habits, but they are neglectful to cultivate habits and can do nothing in the face of life and learning bottlenecks. If a child is often absent from class, the impact on the child's academic performance is obvious.

After missing several classes, they will feel pressured if they can't keep up with what the teacher has taught them. Other children will also feel frustrated if they do better than themselves. In the long run, their self-confidence will be frustrated, and children will slowly lose interest in learning. The final result is likely to give up halfway.

In fact, the attitude of children towards learning is mostly the attitude of their parents. Parents are serious and children are active. If parents do not pay attention to it, children will naturally take it seriously. Again, many years later, you will be grateful for your earnest study and your parents' encouragement at this moment. The pain and efforts at this moment will become the flower of life carved on the crystal.